So there I was, wondering how to get the enthusiastic group of boys that was, unintentionally, intimidating others at the 6-12 year old program from visiting the shuriken target practice station, to step away for a moment to redirect their energies.

I'm not sure why this idea never occurred to me, but I know I'll be using it again in the future. In terms of group dynamics, putting the station "on a break" was a way to calm the room down, remind everyone there were several activities to work on, and not make anyone feel like they were "in trouble." The group was using the station as I intended, but their excitement over the activity was overriding their manners, so they weren't listening to each other, taking turns, or working together as a group any longer. Not to mention, the frenetic activity around that area was off-putting to some of the calmer, quieter kids. By not ending that game altogether, it didn't punish kids for not wanting to wade into the fray, or those who took a long time perfecting their shurikens.
So the next time you feel a program getting out of control, try putting an activity, station, toy, etc. "on a break," and see if it works for you!
Just ran across this post when looking at my Feedly (an every 6 months activity apparently) and think it's kind of fun that it is simultaneously a post about taking a break, and announces that the blog is on a break (of however long). Great idea, thanks for sharing!
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